Answers & Resources for Healing

Resources for Understanding Yourself and Your Relationships

A lot of the people I work with are already paying attention to their patterns and trying to understand what’s going on in their lives and relationships. This space is here to support that process, with articles, reflections, and resources that help make sense of things in a clearer, more grounded way.

Some of what you’ll find here are pieces I’ve written to break down how I think about this work, including topics like attachment, trauma, relationship patterns, and why certain things keep showing up even when you understand them. You’ll also find books, tools, and conversations that I’ve found helpful over time.

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Answers & Reflections

These are pieces I’ve written to help you better understand what’s actually happening underneath your patterns, reactions, and relationships. They’re not meant to be overly polished or perfect, just a way to share how I think about this work and what I’m noticing.

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Am I Anxiously Attached?

Attachment styles aren’t as fixed as we sometimes make them out to be. A look at anxious attachment, fear of intimacy, and why our attachment strategies can shift depending on the relationship.
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I’m Not Into Psychedelics. Can We Still Work Together?

You can be completely uninterested in psychedelics, and I’ll be just as interested in working with you.
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The Pressure to Heal

Explore how the pressure to heal and pursue personal growth can become another form of perfectionism, and why making room for the messy, complicated parts of being human matters just as much as self-improvement.
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What Does It Mean to Work With Your Parts in Therapy?

Parts work helps us understand the different aspects of ourselves, including conflicting emotions, protective patterns, and old wounds. Learn how parts work shows up in therapy, how it relates to Internal Family Systems (IFS), and why it can be a meaningful part of healing.
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How Childhood Patterns Show Up in Adult Relationships

Childhood coping strategies often persist into adulthood, shaping our relationships. Recognizing these patterns with compassion allows us to choose healthier ways of connecting.
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MAPS MDMA Assisted Therapy Training
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Exploring MDMA-Assisted Psychotherapy

A reflection on my experience at MAPS MDMA-assisted psychotherapy training in Italy, exploring the therapeutic potential of MDMA, the importance of trust and emotional safety, and the role of preparation and integration in trauma healing.

Resources & Helpful Links

These are resources I often recommend or return to in my own work. You don’t need all of them. If something stands out, it’s usually worth paying attention to.

Podcasts for Psychedelic Healing

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Keep Talking Podcast
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Psychedelic Medicine Podcast with Dr. Lynne Marie Morski
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